PinnedThey want us to stay separate. Don’t do it. Lives depend on it.“They” want you and I to stay separated by the polarizing views they thrust upon us. Every argument now is set up to have two sides — black and white. No grey. Yet we all know that real life is full of shades of grey and compromises. …Guns3 min read
PinnedYou can miss a dog as much as a loved one.I still miss our dog, the one who died in 2016. She was pretty much the best dog I ever had. She was like a nanny to my children. She was a black standard poodle and so smart it was scary. She was most of all though very sweet. A…Dogs4 min read
PinnedSurrendering to Motherhood with my au pair’s helpI met my husband a bit later in our lives. He was 30 and I was 32. I had been married 7 years before that, and it was very brief and pretty much a mistake (neither of us were ready to be married I think). …7 min read
PinnedMother’s Day — the Good, the Bad and UglyMother’s Day was invented in 1907, by Anna Jarvis. Originally meant simply as a simple day to honor mothers, it expanded to include others who mother and became a national holiday in 1914, which meant it became a more commercial, card-buying/giving holiday which “Jarvis spent the last years of her…Mothers Mental Illness8 min read
Jun 17You spoke to me in tonguesYou spoke to me in tonguesPoem1 min readfrom clkr.comYou spoke to me in tongues----2
Jun 14She forgot to tell usMy mom. She forgot to tell me that the days are long, but the years short. That I shouldn’t shy away from having my photo taken, because then when I left the earth, my children would not have my smile to look at. That one she forgot to tell herself. …Love Mother1 min read
Jun 14I know why old people are grumpyBelieve me I do. Now that I myself am getting older, I see why a lot of old people are grumpy! IT’s because you see the same shit over and…1 min readold man from istockI know why old people are grumpy----1
May 3A Hard Part of GriefGrief is a part of all of our lives. If you are human, you will lose someone you love at some point. You will also lose pets, jobs, partners, hopes and dreams. Grief is a thread that runs through our lives. Sooner or later, it will wind around you. These…Grief2 min read
Apr 15The pandemic years have left us numbThese last two years have been so strange and difficult. Some of us lost our jobs. Others got ill and recovered, but have long-term Covid symptoms. Still others lost loved ones. I myself lost a friend I had had for my whole adult life and was not allowed to attend…Covid2 min read
Apr 4Old Grandmother Woman’s TreesOld Grandmother woman is planting trees. Trees she will not see grow to their fullest height. Carefully, she nestles the fragile bleached green seedlings into the soft brown earth. “Be strong little ones” she whispers. She remembers the trees that used to grow here. Oak trees she climbed on as…Native American2 min read